So I don't write these types of blogs normally (or at all)
But after a long time of thinking and praying about a particular need we have here on the ground, I have been encouraged by others to write up a request for anyone who would love to get behind us and support us in a particular area.
With the ministry expanding, and also our family growing (not just my own with the birth of Ethan, but new babies that have also joined us with the 'larger' family that we live with) we have seen that there is a growing need for safer modes of transport for our family in Uganda.
Agnes and I really feel, and have decided (alongside consultation with our missions mentor) that a small car is a responsible thing for us to have right now.
A recent event really showed us how important a car is. When Farouk and Beatrice's newborn son got extremely sick with blood poisoning, and almost lost his life, we had to race him to the hospital. We were lucky that my mother was borrowing the village of hopes car at the time, so we could race straight to the hospital.
If we did not have the car, we would of had to of waited around while trying to find a friend who was available.
The nearest good hospital is about 20 minutes drive away in a car. In public transport it can take up to 1 hour to get there.
Public transport has also got more dangerous to use, as we frequently need to go to town to buy things for our work here. The taxi buses and boda boda's (motor bike taxis) that are the only form of public transport, our regularly driving in a very dangerous way.
We have counted so many deaths, and severe accidents, on the road over the last year caused by these public transport vehicles.
Of course you can understand that Aggie and I do not want to take baby Ethan on the back of a motor bike.
Our only other option is to pay a high fee for a personal taxi car to come and drive us around. This costs a lot of money, and even still, if there is an emergency we need to wait for the car to come from town first, and then bring us to the hospital (which can take 45 minutes)
We have manged to use public transport for the whole time that I have been here in Uganda, and have tried our best to make do.
But with the birth of our newborn son, we feel we cannot keep doing this without taking risks that we don't feel comfortable about.
So taking all of this into account it seems wise and responsible to have a small vehicle for the family.
Cars can be expensive here, but we have a good contact for a small reliable car that Andrew has been able to look up and find.
We believe we can get the car for between five to six thousand dollars (maybe even a bit less)
As you know, we serve the people here in a voluntary capacity and our personal living and family costs are provided by generous partners ... many of you reading this!
This means that there is no 'pot' of savings to draw from in times like this, as each month is finely budgeted.
God has provided everything we need and often more through all of you and we are thankful for that.
People have also given us one off donations, which have been such a blessing! A lot of these one off donations though have gone towards the medical care of Agnes having a safe pregnancy and delivery! But we are able to contribute about $400 of money that has been accumulated from these one off donations to go towards a car at least!
We waited a time and prayed about asking for help on our blog here, and even though I really don't like asking for money, and prefer to see God work through people at the needed times, we feel that it is right to do so now.
If you are in a position to contribute and willing to help, we would appreciate any contribution that could go straight towards purchasing a small car.
We ask this knowing that you all have to budget each month as well, so we acknowledge that every donation is a gift and a blessing. We also thank everyone who has stood by us so far, not just financially, but also with your prayers.
If you feel, please pray about partnering with us in this, we value each gift.
Our heart is to continue to serve the young people here in Uganda and express even more of Gods love and his potential for them to be people of hope, and we love that we can share that with all of you.
If you can contribute, please contact Andrew on: aboonstra1@gmail.com or on 0400 488016 to let us know.
Contributions via bank accounts also can always work, but it helps to see where we are at and who has blessed us if you could contact Andrew.
God bless you and thank you.
From the Vandenberg family.
Wednesday, 10 February 2016
Saturday, 30 January 2016
Little miracle boy.
Today is a good day!
Today Farouk and Beatrice little boy, Abraham (or Ibra), has come back from the hospital.
He spent his first week in this world fighting for his life from a serious infection of septicemia.
And to be honest, if you saw the boys condition, you would be amazed that he is still alive.
Ibra was born from Al-Shafa hospital early Sunday morning, and came home on Sunday evening.
The first night of Ibra being home in the house, I had heard him cry in the next room a few times, and Farouk had mentioned that it had been a rough night for them.
But it wasn't until Mum and myself came back from town at around 2 pm, that we realized the seriousness of the situation.
Beatrice had been complaining for a while that she thought Ibra was sick, and that he was too hot.
We had been telling her not to wrap the baby up too much, because here in Africa culture they wrap babies up in about 5 layers of blankets.
But mum and I decided to have a look at him at 2 pm on Monday to see what the problem was.
There was little Ibra, wrapped up in way too many layers, with bulging eyes and a panting mouth.
We felt him and automatically realized he was too hot. We then asked Beatrice when the last time he had fed was, which was 7 am that morning (7 hours)
This put up red flags straight away! I grabbed the thermometer and measured his temperature, which was at 40.5.
From there it was no messing around, we rounded them into the car as fast as we could to race Ibra to the hospital.
Remember a lot of the time people here are very ignorant of a lot things, especially when it comes to babies.
There are no such things as birthing classes, or being taught in the hospital how to look after your baby. People don't have access to education like we do on this matter, and a lot of the time people like Farouk and Beatrice are learning things as they go.
So they didn't really get how serious the situation was.
This happens a lot in Uganda, with people being taken to the hospital when it is too late.
Both mum and I felt sick in the car on the way to the hospital, we were both just praying that the boy wouldn't die in the car.
Mum drove as best and as fast as she could, we reached Nile International Hospital (where Ethan was born) and when they saw the baby at reception, they treated it as an emergency and rushed him to the doctor.
Ibra was admitted and put in the same room that Aggie and I had been in with Ethan. It took about 10 minutes before any kind of medical treatment came, but it felt like 40 minutes to us all.
It was suspected that he had septicemia (blood poisoning) or even meningitis.
During that time we all laid hands on Ibra and prayed that God would heal him.
At this point in time, Ibra had gone completely floppy and out of it, he was not responding to anything and he looked like he was on deaths door.
I believe that God worked a miracle on Ibra, when you see how he was, he should of been dead.
Even the doctor told us that he couldn't assure us that the boy was going to live.
And then the treatment came. A Paracetamol suppository to bring the temperature down, a shot of antibiotics for any infection that he had, a shot of vitamin K, a shot of medicine to help him with his breathing, and a IV drip placed into his arm.
He also had a blood test taken to see if they could pick up on anything.
All we had to do was wait and see how he would respond. It was horrible to see a day old baby getting so many injections and medication pumped into him, just to save his life. And perhaps there may be a price to pay later on in life for that. We don't know.
While he was getting all these injections, Ibra didn't make a sound, no cry, no flinch, nothing.
But after a few hours his temperature had gone down, and his eyes had started opening again as he started to stir.
By the next day he had finally gone down to a normal temperature, and he started breast feeding again.
By the next day he was pooing and weeing as normal.
The doctor had checked over the boy and had noticed that the umbilical cord had never been tied properly, and was extremely infected. He diagnosed that this was the source of the infection.
He also added that the way the cord was cut from Al-Shafa was very poorly done.
I won't go into too much detail about how horrible the care was at Al-Shafa when Ibra was born. But basically he was never checked over, and even when they were discharged, no doctor had come to check on them.
I did go to Al-Shafa in the following days to speak with the head doctor about everything, and give them a bit of my concern (opinion) .. but they basically denied that they did anything wrong and didn't seem too phased or sorry about it.
I won't be recommending anyone to go that hospital again.
But we are just extremely thankful to God, that He has spared the life of Ibra!
I truly believe that God worked a miracle. There were so many factors that worked out for us, like us having a car around to jump in straight away and go to the hospital (and not have to wait around trying to find one) the fact that we had filled up with petrol before hand (so we didn't have to do it on the way to the hospital and lose precious time) that we came home early from town, that we decided to have a look at Ibra and check his temperature.
All of these things could be looked at as coincidence and luck! Or you can choose to look at them as God's sovereign hand.
C.S Lewis talks about how there is two ways to view the world. One way is to see nothing as a miracle, and the other way is to see everything as a miracle.
I choose to see the world in the latter.
I don't believe anything comes down to chance or coincidence, and I have a little bit more confidence in the power of prayer for healing as well now!
So today is a good day! And we celebrate that Ibra is finally home!
Meshach visits his little brother in the hospital.
Today Farouk and Beatrice little boy, Abraham (or Ibra), has come back from the hospital.
He spent his first week in this world fighting for his life from a serious infection of septicemia.
And to be honest, if you saw the boys condition, you would be amazed that he is still alive.
Ibra was born from Al-Shafa hospital early Sunday morning, and came home on Sunday evening.
The first night of Ibra being home in the house, I had heard him cry in the next room a few times, and Farouk had mentioned that it had been a rough night for them.
But it wasn't until Mum and myself came back from town at around 2 pm, that we realized the seriousness of the situation.
Beatrice had been complaining for a while that she thought Ibra was sick, and that he was too hot.
We had been telling her not to wrap the baby up too much, because here in Africa culture they wrap babies up in about 5 layers of blankets.
But mum and I decided to have a look at him at 2 pm on Monday to see what the problem was.
There was little Ibra, wrapped up in way too many layers, with bulging eyes and a panting mouth.
We felt him and automatically realized he was too hot. We then asked Beatrice when the last time he had fed was, which was 7 am that morning (7 hours)
This put up red flags straight away! I grabbed the thermometer and measured his temperature, which was at 40.5.
From there it was no messing around, we rounded them into the car as fast as we could to race Ibra to the hospital.
Remember a lot of the time people here are very ignorant of a lot things, especially when it comes to babies.
There are no such things as birthing classes, or being taught in the hospital how to look after your baby. People don't have access to education like we do on this matter, and a lot of the time people like Farouk and Beatrice are learning things as they go.
So they didn't really get how serious the situation was.
This happens a lot in Uganda, with people being taken to the hospital when it is too late.
Both mum and I felt sick in the car on the way to the hospital, we were both just praying that the boy wouldn't die in the car.
Mum drove as best and as fast as she could, we reached Nile International Hospital (where Ethan was born) and when they saw the baby at reception, they treated it as an emergency and rushed him to the doctor.
Ibra was admitted and put in the same room that Aggie and I had been in with Ethan. It took about 10 minutes before any kind of medical treatment came, but it felt like 40 minutes to us all.
It was suspected that he had septicemia (blood poisoning) or even meningitis.
During that time we all laid hands on Ibra and prayed that God would heal him.
At this point in time, Ibra had gone completely floppy and out of it, he was not responding to anything and he looked like he was on deaths door.
I believe that God worked a miracle on Ibra, when you see how he was, he should of been dead.
Even the doctor told us that he couldn't assure us that the boy was going to live.
And then the treatment came. A Paracetamol suppository to bring the temperature down, a shot of antibiotics for any infection that he had, a shot of vitamin K, a shot of medicine to help him with his breathing, and a IV drip placed into his arm.
He also had a blood test taken to see if they could pick up on anything.
All we had to do was wait and see how he would respond. It was horrible to see a day old baby getting so many injections and medication pumped into him, just to save his life. And perhaps there may be a price to pay later on in life for that. We don't know.
While he was getting all these injections, Ibra didn't make a sound, no cry, no flinch, nothing.
But after a few hours his temperature had gone down, and his eyes had started opening again as he started to stir.
By the next day he had finally gone down to a normal temperature, and he started breast feeding again.
By the next day he was pooing and weeing as normal.
The doctor had checked over the boy and had noticed that the umbilical cord had never been tied properly, and was extremely infected. He diagnosed that this was the source of the infection.
He also added that the way the cord was cut from Al-Shafa was very poorly done.
I won't go into too much detail about how horrible the care was at Al-Shafa when Ibra was born. But basically he was never checked over, and even when they were discharged, no doctor had come to check on them.
I did go to Al-Shafa in the following days to speak with the head doctor about everything, and give them a bit of my concern (opinion) .. but they basically denied that they did anything wrong and didn't seem too phased or sorry about it.
I won't be recommending anyone to go that hospital again.
But we are just extremely thankful to God, that He has spared the life of Ibra!
I truly believe that God worked a miracle. There were so many factors that worked out for us, like us having a car around to jump in straight away and go to the hospital (and not have to wait around trying to find one) the fact that we had filled up with petrol before hand (so we didn't have to do it on the way to the hospital and lose precious time) that we came home early from town, that we decided to have a look at Ibra and check his temperature.
All of these things could be looked at as coincidence and luck! Or you can choose to look at them as God's sovereign hand.
C.S Lewis talks about how there is two ways to view the world. One way is to see nothing as a miracle, and the other way is to see everything as a miracle.
I choose to see the world in the latter.
I don't believe anything comes down to chance or coincidence, and I have a little bit more confidence in the power of prayer for healing as well now!
So today is a good day! And we celebrate that Ibra is finally home!
Meshach visits his little brother in the hospital.
Monday, 18 January 2016
Baby
So I am writing this blog with weary eyes and a tired head, after being up all night with Agnes trying to sooth our baby boy who seems to have wind and is a bit uncomfortable.
So no sleep.
But I have to praise God for no sleep because the reason for no sleep is our little child.
For those who don't know, last Friday Aggie gave birth to a little baby boy, who we have named Ethan Lewis Vandenberg.
He has very light skin and looks a lot like I did as a baby! Although he has Aggie's hair color and Aggie's African nose.
We went into the hospital on Friday morning for a check up, but after examining Agnes the doctor said that the baby is very ready to come, and so they induced her there.
Unfortunately Andrew just missed out on seeing our baby, as he left to go to Kampala on Friday morning! Typical, since he was waiting and hoping he would get to see the baby the whole time he was here.
But Friday was the day Ethan wanted to come.
Aggie was in labor from 12.00 to 7.00 pm.
Ethan came quite fast in the end, from about 6.30 it was all on, and the doctors barely had time to get her into the delivery room and ready before Ethan's head started popping out.
It was the most intense thing I have ever gone through (and I am sure Aggie could say the same haha)
Ethan was born very healthy, weighing in at 3.5 kilos.
The first thing I noticed about him was his eyes. I have never seen a new born with such active, wide open eyes.
It actually was all a little bit scary, because Agnes was on the delivery bed for about 45 minutes after giving birth.
She had some complications with the placenta not coming out, and so the doctors had to hurry and find the anesthetist to be able to put Aggie under so they could work on her.
During this time they kind of whisked me away to another room to be with Ethan. They never really explained to me what was happening, all I knew was that there was some problems with the placenta and that they needed to put Aggie to sleep to work on her.
When I asked the Ugandan nurse if Aggie would be ok, in the typical blunt and casual way which can be normal among African nurses, she simply said "Yes she is ok, but if they leave her too long she could bled to death"
I've never been more scared in my life! And I have never prayed harder in my life as well.
Afterwards I got to learn that it can be quite common for this to happen to women during delivery, and that with the very skilled doctors in the modern hospital we were at, Aggie was in good hands and they had it under control.
But we still praise God that He protected Agnes and the baby. And although Aggie is quite sore now with a lot of stitches, she is happy and doing well (although very tired after last night)
It was an amazing experience to be with Aggie as well, and to be there by her side. There was actually a funny moment (in hindsight ... not at the time) where the Ugandan nurse tried to make me leave the delivery room during birth.
In the culture here men never attend the birth of their children, but leave the women alone with other women.
The nurse told me I have to leave now, to which I said "No I am going to be here with my wife" .. She looked at me strangely and said that I have to talk to the doctor about it (our doctor is a lovely woman from Turkey) to which I told her that we had already organized it with her.
I had to just let her know very firmly that it may not be a part of her culture, but this is the decision we had made, and we want to be together for it.
A few strange looks, but hey no one was getting rid of me from that room! Aggie told me afterwards she was so glad I was there, because she was so zoned out from the pain, she didn't understand or hear anything the doctor was saying, and she was taking all her cues from me (as I repeated to her what the doctor wanted her to do)
I am very proud of Aggie, she did so well! And she didn't have any form of pain killers throughout the whole ordeal. Straight up dealt with the pain on her own (with some help from my massages)
And I should say, that it is official ... Women are stronger then men.
We are both looking forward to the joys of parenthood. And although we can be scared and nervous at times (Ethan seems to hate having nappies changed, and hates being bathed ... which Agnes finds hard) I think we are doing well.
Especially considering we have had no classes or training or anything in how to deal with a baby. The hospital doesn't really do that here either.
We were out of the hospital the next day at lunch time, and sent home to start trying to work out how this parenting thing works.
The good thing here about the culture is that Aggie and I are not alone. We live in a big house with many women (some who have their own children) and so there is always someone to take the baby and give us a rest. Plus Aggie's sisters are doing all the cooking and washing so that Aggie doesn't have to lift a finger (which is good, because she is still struggling to walk around)
Mum has also been here staying with us, which has been a real blessing. She has helped Aggie a lot in showing us how to bath, change nappies, feed, burp etc.
And the good thing about Mum is that she is not forceful like the Ugandans in our house ... who just take the baby from your hands and say this is how it should be done (which Aggie and I get a little frustrated at)
Mum simply gives us advice and watches over us and helps us where we need, while we do it ourselves.
I know Mum is over the moon about her first grandchild, and Aggie and I both love having her support here.
So now we begin the long journey of Parenthood! What a huge change to our lives. But what a huge change that will be such a great blessing!
We thank everyone who has loved and supported us, prayed for us and sent us messages.
May God bless you.
The other day I read this passage in church, and also showed it to mum. I thought it was beautiful.
Grandchildren are the crown of the aged, and the glory of children is their fathers. Proverbs 17:6
So no sleep.
But I have to praise God for no sleep because the reason for no sleep is our little child.
For those who don't know, last Friday Aggie gave birth to a little baby boy, who we have named Ethan Lewis Vandenberg.
He has very light skin and looks a lot like I did as a baby! Although he has Aggie's hair color and Aggie's African nose.
We went into the hospital on Friday morning for a check up, but after examining Agnes the doctor said that the baby is very ready to come, and so they induced her there.
Unfortunately Andrew just missed out on seeing our baby, as he left to go to Kampala on Friday morning! Typical, since he was waiting and hoping he would get to see the baby the whole time he was here.
But Friday was the day Ethan wanted to come.
Aggie was in labor from 12.00 to 7.00 pm.
Ethan came quite fast in the end, from about 6.30 it was all on, and the doctors barely had time to get her into the delivery room and ready before Ethan's head started popping out.
It was the most intense thing I have ever gone through (and I am sure Aggie could say the same haha)
Ethan was born very healthy, weighing in at 3.5 kilos.
The first thing I noticed about him was his eyes. I have never seen a new born with such active, wide open eyes.
It actually was all a little bit scary, because Agnes was on the delivery bed for about 45 minutes after giving birth.
She had some complications with the placenta not coming out, and so the doctors had to hurry and find the anesthetist to be able to put Aggie under so they could work on her.
During this time they kind of whisked me away to another room to be with Ethan. They never really explained to me what was happening, all I knew was that there was some problems with the placenta and that they needed to put Aggie to sleep to work on her.
When I asked the Ugandan nurse if Aggie would be ok, in the typical blunt and casual way which can be normal among African nurses, she simply said "Yes she is ok, but if they leave her too long she could bled to death"
I've never been more scared in my life! And I have never prayed harder in my life as well.
Afterwards I got to learn that it can be quite common for this to happen to women during delivery, and that with the very skilled doctors in the modern hospital we were at, Aggie was in good hands and they had it under control.
But we still praise God that He protected Agnes and the baby. And although Aggie is quite sore now with a lot of stitches, she is happy and doing well (although very tired after last night)
It was an amazing experience to be with Aggie as well, and to be there by her side. There was actually a funny moment (in hindsight ... not at the time) where the Ugandan nurse tried to make me leave the delivery room during birth.
In the culture here men never attend the birth of their children, but leave the women alone with other women.
The nurse told me I have to leave now, to which I said "No I am going to be here with my wife" .. She looked at me strangely and said that I have to talk to the doctor about it (our doctor is a lovely woman from Turkey) to which I told her that we had already organized it with her.
I had to just let her know very firmly that it may not be a part of her culture, but this is the decision we had made, and we want to be together for it.
A few strange looks, but hey no one was getting rid of me from that room! Aggie told me afterwards she was so glad I was there, because she was so zoned out from the pain, she didn't understand or hear anything the doctor was saying, and she was taking all her cues from me (as I repeated to her what the doctor wanted her to do)
I am very proud of Aggie, she did so well! And she didn't have any form of pain killers throughout the whole ordeal. Straight up dealt with the pain on her own (with some help from my massages)
And I should say, that it is official ... Women are stronger then men.
We are both looking forward to the joys of parenthood. And although we can be scared and nervous at times (Ethan seems to hate having nappies changed, and hates being bathed ... which Agnes finds hard) I think we are doing well.
Especially considering we have had no classes or training or anything in how to deal with a baby. The hospital doesn't really do that here either.
We were out of the hospital the next day at lunch time, and sent home to start trying to work out how this parenting thing works.
The good thing here about the culture is that Aggie and I are not alone. We live in a big house with many women (some who have their own children) and so there is always someone to take the baby and give us a rest. Plus Aggie's sisters are doing all the cooking and washing so that Aggie doesn't have to lift a finger (which is good, because she is still struggling to walk around)
Mum has also been here staying with us, which has been a real blessing. She has helped Aggie a lot in showing us how to bath, change nappies, feed, burp etc.
And the good thing about Mum is that she is not forceful like the Ugandans in our house ... who just take the baby from your hands and say this is how it should be done (which Aggie and I get a little frustrated at)
Mum simply gives us advice and watches over us and helps us where we need, while we do it ourselves.
I know Mum is over the moon about her first grandchild, and Aggie and I both love having her support here.
So now we begin the long journey of Parenthood! What a huge change to our lives. But what a huge change that will be such a great blessing!
We thank everyone who has loved and supported us, prayed for us and sent us messages.
May God bless you.
The other day I read this passage in church, and also showed it to mum. I thought it was beautiful.
Grandchildren are the crown of the aged, and the glory of children is their fathers. Proverbs 17:6
Wednesday, 30 December 2015
Merry Christmas and a happy new year.
Merry Christmas everyone.
It is the end of the year, which means celebrations and feasting and time with the family.
We are doing well! Agnes is getting a lot of rest because she is getting ready to give birth any day/week now (we have been told to expect anything after the 5th of Jan, but the official due date is the 17th)
She gets very tired and uncomfortable, and can be in a lot of pain, so please pray for her.
We also went for our visa interview a few weeks back, which went very well. The Australian man who interviewed us said at the end of it all that we had passed the 'genuine relationship' test, and he couldn't see any issue with Aggie getting a partner visa to Australia.
We thank God for a safe journey to Kampala and a good interview (even though Aggie felt very nervous and thought she did badly ... she actually did fine though)
We also had our annual YSU Christmas dinner here, where we invite many friends of YSU to come and share a meal and a celebration and we look back on the year.
It is always a positive experience looking at all the people who we have touched over the year! Many of the people who come started in our programs and now they are looking after themselves. Even though they have finished, they still come and join us, but instead of participants in our classes, they now come as friends!
We looked back on many of the things that had been achieved over the year. This included.
* A group of tailoring girls who have graduated, and many young women now taking care of themselves through work and small business initiatives.
* A passionate group of young guys who always come for bible studies.
* A talented group of youth who practice and perform hip hop dancing.
* Running two Empower Trauma rehabilitation programs to bring healing to young peoples lives.
* A new Boda Boda donated to us, to help us with out work.
* A new chicken farming structure at the YSU block with 600 chickens now being reared.
* The development of the block of land, including the building of a fence, store room, toilets, chicken houses, solar power, water tanks, two new guards and our new guard dog Spurgeon.
* A weekly fellowship every Wednesday with many people coming to worship.
* Two new babies on the way to join the team early 2016.
Of course there has been hardships this year as well, tensions with people, sicknesses and even deaths of people we love.
But through it all God has been good and continues to work.
Our Christmas day celebration was a nice time with the family as well. Agnes, her sisters, her brother and myself all went to church in the morning and then ate a massive meal of chicken and rice!
We were all very full afterwards and all ended up falling asleep.
We also shared presents with everyone. Agnes' sisters were very excited to get a present (as the were not expecting it)
A simple Christmas gift here can mean so much to someone who has never had the experience of Christmas presents before.
The day before Christmas our youth also ran an outreach. A couple of the young guys had it on their heart to help someone in need. They had found a woman through a friend at a local church, who lived in a nearby village but was doing it tough.
She lived in a very small mud house up on a hill in a remote part of a village.
One thing that she really needed was a toilet. She had no where to go, and so her and her children had to make do with small bushes around the place.
Our young guys really felt like they wanted to build a drop toilet for this woman.
So YSU contributed the money for the materials, and the youth donated their own labor. A few days were spent digging at 15 ft hole, and then a big group of us came to build this woman a drop toilet.
Afterwards the young people all prayed for the woman and her family. A few of the youth had spent a few days there, sharing about the love of Christ to this woman and her neighbors.
And many people around the village were so impressed to see young people giving up their time to go and labor in the sun, for free.
It was a great testimony.
These are the sort of things I love getting behind. Youth initiated outreaches, where local Ugandan youth are the ones helping to build and reach out to others in their own community.
Please pray for us as we expect our new baby soon! We appreciate all of your love and support.
Another thing we request, is if there is anyone who is interested in sponsoring a young woman for the next tailoring class that we hope to get started in February to get in contact with HopeBuilders. It would be great to get people who would commit to sponsoring one of these girls for one year.
It is a $50 a month donation for the course of a year. This pays for teaches wages and all materials and resources to run the class. The young women learn a bunch of valuable skills during this time, including tailoring, business skills, English and Maths.
The young women also get mentored and discipled, and go through various programs including trauma rehabilitation and healing.
At the end of it all they have a bunch of new skills, a tailoring machine and a new outlook on life!
If you are interested please feel free to contact HopeBuilders on info@hopebuilders.org.au
or to my personal email on ooeeluke@hotmail.com
Thank you and God bless you.
It is the end of the year, which means celebrations and feasting and time with the family.
We are doing well! Agnes is getting a lot of rest because she is getting ready to give birth any day/week now (we have been told to expect anything after the 5th of Jan, but the official due date is the 17th)
She gets very tired and uncomfortable, and can be in a lot of pain, so please pray for her.
We also went for our visa interview a few weeks back, which went very well. The Australian man who interviewed us said at the end of it all that we had passed the 'genuine relationship' test, and he couldn't see any issue with Aggie getting a partner visa to Australia.
We thank God for a safe journey to Kampala and a good interview (even though Aggie felt very nervous and thought she did badly ... she actually did fine though)
We also had our annual YSU Christmas dinner here, where we invite many friends of YSU to come and share a meal and a celebration and we look back on the year.
It is always a positive experience looking at all the people who we have touched over the year! Many of the people who come started in our programs and now they are looking after themselves. Even though they have finished, they still come and join us, but instead of participants in our classes, they now come as friends!
We looked back on many of the things that had been achieved over the year. This included.
* A group of tailoring girls who have graduated, and many young women now taking care of themselves through work and small business initiatives.
* A passionate group of young guys who always come for bible studies.
* A talented group of youth who practice and perform hip hop dancing.
* Running two Empower Trauma rehabilitation programs to bring healing to young peoples lives.
* A new Boda Boda donated to us, to help us with out work.
* A new chicken farming structure at the YSU block with 600 chickens now being reared.
* The development of the block of land, including the building of a fence, store room, toilets, chicken houses, solar power, water tanks, two new guards and our new guard dog Spurgeon.
* A weekly fellowship every Wednesday with many people coming to worship.
* Two new babies on the way to join the team early 2016.
Of course there has been hardships this year as well, tensions with people, sicknesses and even deaths of people we love.
But through it all God has been good and continues to work.
We were all very full afterwards and all ended up falling asleep.
We also shared presents with everyone. Agnes' sisters were very excited to get a present (as the were not expecting it)
A simple Christmas gift here can mean so much to someone who has never had the experience of Christmas presents before.
She lived in a very small mud house up on a hill in a remote part of a village.
One thing that she really needed was a toilet. She had no where to go, and so her and her children had to make do with small bushes around the place.
Our young guys really felt like they wanted to build a drop toilet for this woman.
So YSU contributed the money for the materials, and the youth donated their own labor. A few days were spent digging at 15 ft hole, and then a big group of us came to build this woman a drop toilet.
Afterwards the young people all prayed for the woman and her family. A few of the youth had spent a few days there, sharing about the love of Christ to this woman and her neighbors.
And many people around the village were so impressed to see young people giving up their time to go and labor in the sun, for free.
It was a great testimony.
These are the sort of things I love getting behind. Youth initiated outreaches, where local Ugandan youth are the ones helping to build and reach out to others in their own community.
Another thing we request, is if there is anyone who is interested in sponsoring a young woman for the next tailoring class that we hope to get started in February to get in contact with HopeBuilders. It would be great to get people who would commit to sponsoring one of these girls for one year.
It is a $50 a month donation for the course of a year. This pays for teaches wages and all materials and resources to run the class. The young women learn a bunch of valuable skills during this time, including tailoring, business skills, English and Maths.
The young women also get mentored and discipled, and go through various programs including trauma rehabilitation and healing.
At the end of it all they have a bunch of new skills, a tailoring machine and a new outlook on life!
If you are interested please feel free to contact HopeBuilders on info@hopebuilders.org.au
or to my personal email on ooeeluke@hotmail.com
Thank you and God bless you.
Friday, 4 December 2015
Schoolies visit and visa interview.
Just a quick update here!
School holidays have just arrived which means 'Busy Busy Busy!'
We have holiday programs, dancing groups, fellowships, Christmas time, chickens, young people popping in all the time, not to mention hopebuilders teams!
It has been good though, it means time goes fast and January and the baby will be here before we know it!
We had the Schoolies Revolution team come and visit us the other day which was great! I shared about some of the vision for YSU, and the team came and prayed for us on the block of land. They also prayed for Agnes and I in the coming weeks with the birth of our baby, which we appreciated from them.
Then the team were treated to lots of dancing performances from our young men and women.
Our tailoring girls shared about what they do, as well as offered some of their products for sale.
Then we had our boys dancing group perform a dance for the Schoolies.
My good friend Solomon also shared a message about following Christ at all costs, and how in the end we never really make a sacrifice because of what Christ has offered us in Eternal life.
Solomon also shared some of his personal testimony which I wrote about here:
http://lukev-uganda.blogspot.ug/2015/07/how-much-would-you-give-up.html
Afterwards all of the schoolies got up and tried some of their own dance moves, much to the amusement and excitement of the Ugandan youth.
The Ugandan youth also got to pray for the schoolies and bless them as well.
Usually we have always done it the other way around ... where the teams come and give a message and pray for the Ugandans and come to bless them!
But I have had a bit of change of thought on how things can be done, mainly because of a great book I have read called 'When helping hurts'.
Instead of having the foreigners always come and do everything to bless the locals, this book suggested flipping that on it's head.
So even though the Ugandan youth had no performance, no prayers or no message given to them to bless them, I believe they felt more empowered by being the ones who had something to offer to the 'Muzungus'.
When I had explained to the Ugandan youth I'd like to do it this way, they were so excited .... it made them feel very valuable!
Agnes and I will also be travelling to Kampala on Monday afternoon so we can go for an interview early Tuesday morning.
The interview is in regards to Agnes' partner visa to Australia. We have no idea what the interview will include, but we appreciate your prayers ... especially because right now it is a difficult time for Agnes to travel with her very large stomach, and her feeling rather sick the last few weeks (although the large stomach is the best proof we can provide of a "ongoing relationship")
We pray it goes smoothly and that this will help in granting Agnes access to be able to live in Australia when ever we please.
We thank everyone again for their love and support.
You can check out our young guys dancing for the Schoolies here:
https://vimeo.com/147750348
School holidays have just arrived which means 'Busy Busy Busy!'
We have holiday programs, dancing groups, fellowships, Christmas time, chickens, young people popping in all the time, not to mention hopebuilders teams!
It has been good though, it means time goes fast and January and the baby will be here before we know it!
We had the Schoolies Revolution team come and visit us the other day which was great! I shared about some of the vision for YSU, and the team came and prayed for us on the block of land. They also prayed for Agnes and I in the coming weeks with the birth of our baby, which we appreciated from them.
Then the team were treated to lots of dancing performances from our young men and women.
Our tailoring girls shared about what they do, as well as offered some of their products for sale.
Then we had our boys dancing group perform a dance for the Schoolies.
My good friend Solomon also shared a message about following Christ at all costs, and how in the end we never really make a sacrifice because of what Christ has offered us in Eternal life.
Solomon also shared some of his personal testimony which I wrote about here:
http://lukev-uganda.blogspot.ug/2015/07/how-much-would-you-give-up.html
Afterwards all of the schoolies got up and tried some of their own dance moves, much to the amusement and excitement of the Ugandan youth.
The Ugandan youth also got to pray for the schoolies and bless them as well.
Usually we have always done it the other way around ... where the teams come and give a message and pray for the Ugandans and come to bless them!
But I have had a bit of change of thought on how things can be done, mainly because of a great book I have read called 'When helping hurts'.
Instead of having the foreigners always come and do everything to bless the locals, this book suggested flipping that on it's head.
So even though the Ugandan youth had no performance, no prayers or no message given to them to bless them, I believe they felt more empowered by being the ones who had something to offer to the 'Muzungus'.
When I had explained to the Ugandan youth I'd like to do it this way, they were so excited .... it made them feel very valuable!
Agnes and I will also be travelling to Kampala on Monday afternoon so we can go for an interview early Tuesday morning.
The interview is in regards to Agnes' partner visa to Australia. We have no idea what the interview will include, but we appreciate your prayers ... especially because right now it is a difficult time for Agnes to travel with her very large stomach, and her feeling rather sick the last few weeks (although the large stomach is the best proof we can provide of a "ongoing relationship")
We pray it goes smoothly and that this will help in granting Agnes access to be able to live in Australia when ever we please.
We thank everyone again for their love and support.
You can check out our young guys dancing for the Schoolies here:
https://vimeo.com/147750348
Saturday, 14 November 2015
Quick update for November
Sorry for the delay in blogs.
I know I used to write a blog every two weeks. But it feels like I have only been managing one once a month.
So my apologies, it can take quite an effort sometimes to think of something exciting and insightful to say.
We are a little bit quiet at the moment, but we are anticipating the busy season of the Christmas holidays.
Not only will we have lots of youth looking for things to do, but two new babies will be joining our household, as well as all our new chickens that have just come in.
We have started our next lot of broiler chickens this month. Two days ago we picked up 600 little chickies.
The first week (especially first 4 days) are very important, as the chickens are so sensitive. They need constant warmth, and so a charcoal pot needs to be kept burning, as well as topping up their food and water.
They also need to be checked every hour, because at such a young age it is easy for them to be crushed when they huddle together.
But this means you have to check them all the time, not just during the day, but also at night.
Farouk and I are taking shifts sleeping down at the property in our tents. Farouk has done the last two nights, and the next two nights will be my turn.
I actually look forward to sleeping under the stars and having my own camp fire. Of course it is very safe because we have a night guard who also is at the property protecting the place.
I know I used to write a blog every two weeks. But it feels like I have only been managing one once a month.
So my apologies, it can take quite an effort sometimes to think of something exciting and insightful to say.
We are a little bit quiet at the moment, but we are anticipating the busy season of the Christmas holidays.
Not only will we have lots of youth looking for things to do, but two new babies will be joining our household, as well as all our new chickens that have just come in.
We have started our next lot of broiler chickens this month. Two days ago we picked up 600 little chickies.
The first week (especially first 4 days) are very important, as the chickens are so sensitive. They need constant warmth, and so a charcoal pot needs to be kept burning, as well as topping up their food and water.
They also need to be checked every hour, because at such a young age it is easy for them to be crushed when they huddle together.
But this means you have to check them all the time, not just during the day, but also at night.
Farouk and I are taking shifts sleeping down at the property in our tents. Farouk has done the last two nights, and the next two nights will be my turn.
I actually look forward to sleeping under the stars and having my own camp fire. Of course it is very safe because we have a night guard who also is at the property protecting the place.
Our youth are also excited for the schoolies to come! We have a dancing group which is looking forward to performing for the schoolies revolution team, as well as sharing their own messages for them.
They also look forward to doing their own outreach these school holidays, which has been initiated by the group themselves.
We have also started a prayer and fellowship evening, every Wednesday at YSU. We really felt that we were lacking in communal prayer at YSU, and felt the need to commit to weekly prayer for each other, Uganda and the ministry.
We started with a few people on the first day and it has grown since. We have made it open to all people connected with us, and it has been interesting to see how many people are attracted to coming and simply singing together and praying for each other.
It is all a part of bigger journey of mine, to rediscover prayer, and how important it is.
It is so easy to run on your own steam, and want to serve the King without asking for the Kings strength.
It is so easy to run on your own steam, and want to serve the King without asking for the Kings strength.
Even in ministry work, it is very easy to fall into a pattern where you actually don't feel like you are living out in faith day to day.
Often we stress that we should serve harder, do more for the kingdom, sacrifice more, give more, and all of those things are true. But often the place to start is on bended knee, humbling yourself and asking for help. If you skip that process ... you will burn out.
Often we stress that we should serve harder, do more for the kingdom, sacrifice more, give more, and all of those things are true. But often the place to start is on bended knee, humbling yourself and asking for help. If you skip that process ... you will burn out.
I know I have been close to burn out here before, or at least have recognized I could be on the trajectory towards burn out.
And so constant prayer and leaning in towards God is the most vital thing. Not serving harder, and sacrificing harder .... those things will be a natural over flow of resting in God's strength. But first come seeking the presence and rest of God.
And so constant prayer and leaning in towards God is the most vital thing. Not serving harder, and sacrificing harder .... those things will be a natural over flow of resting in God's strength. But first come seeking the presence and rest of God.
Our weekly fellowships.
Agnes is also doing well! Although she gets very uncomfortable at night, and struggles to sleep because of the large belly in her way.
We are also very thankful for the contributions people put towards for us to be able to purchase a Boda Boda. This Boda Boda has been very helpful, especially with our chicken project.
Farouk and I also completed two adventures in the last month! Since we know that the next few months won't really give us time off to do such things.
We went for a camp in the African bush, and we also walked from Kampala to Jinja in 2 days (100 km)
You can watch both little videos here:
You can watch both little videos here:
https://vimeo.com/144285549
https://vimeo.com/145478847
Otherwise I want to thank everyone again for all the support and prayer that they give to Agnes and myself here in Uganda.
We love you all very much.
We love you all very much.
God bless.
Saturday, 17 October 2015
Quick update!
Hello everyone!
I am sorry about the long time between blogs! Things have been a bit quiet here, since we have finished the tailoring class, and Agnes has been having lots of rest.
I thought I would give a quick update to let everyone know what has been happening.
Lots of our time has been put into this chicken project and right now we are selling all our chickens!
Due to some mistakes on our behalf (in regards to feeding amounts and feeding schedules), and some advice from others that hasn't been the greatest, we look like we will just break even with this first lot of chickens!
But it has all been a valuable experience! We have learnt a lot and can now adjust what needs to be done for the second lot of chickens!
We are confident with the experience we have gained and look forward to yielding better results with the next lot of 300 chickens that we will get in November.
Agnes brother has also come on board, and wants to volunteer with us to give us some good tips, as he has been involved in rearing chickens for a long time as well.
There has been a lot of work over the last 7 weeks, but everything we have learnt has been so valuable.
People have actually been surprised that we managed to keep so many of the chickens alive and healthy, many people lose so many chickens on their first try.
So although I was a little disappointing at the lack of profit we made from the first lot of chickens, we are looking at the positives. That is the nature of starting micro businesses!
You get experience and you learn and learn until you get something that works just right!
Andrew was recently here for two weeks as well! It was great to have him here! And I always enjoy his pastoral support.
His presence is always so helpful, to be encouraged, supported and guided. He often does so much here in Uganda, and can be a silent workhorse, getting lots and lots done! But Agnes and I really appreciate all his hard work to support the work that goes on Uganda.
One thing he did while here was buy YSU a boda boda. This boda boda is going to be so helpful in running the chicken project.
Running to the block of land, as well as picking up things like maize bran and chicken feeds, has often taken up a lot of transport money (because we have to hire boda boda drivers)
Now with our own boda boda we can save costs on transport, and do everything ourselves.
We want to thank everyone in Australia who supported us and contributed towards the boda boda.
I continue to run my Friday night devo's with my group of boys, and I have encouraged them to start thinking of some of their own lead outreach ideas for the holidays!
We have come together studying the word for that last few months, but since (as James said) faith without deeds is dead, and the fact that you can be an expert in the bible but still not follow Jesus, we want to encourage each other to use our gifts and skills to reach others.
So these boys are coming up with ideas on how they can use their skills to reach others, whether it be hospital patients, street kids or the poor.
That fact that it will be their own initiatives, instead of me telling them what to do, is also encouraging. I will just give them advice and support where I can.
Right now we are still interviewing girls for the next tailoring class, which should be starting in February.
If anyone is interested in supporting girls through a one year tailoring course! Please feel free to contact hopebuilders on info@hopebuilders.org.au
This course has been very valuable in helping these girls. And the stories have been encouraging, seeing young girls getting work in the Jinja main market, or starting up their own businesses.
Otherwise we are doing well health wise! We just have two very tired pregnant women in our house who need a lot of rest (which is one of the reasons we will start the next tailoring course in Feb .. after delivery)
Again we thank you for all your support and prayers! Your support always means so much to us here in Uganda.
I am sorry about the long time between blogs! Things have been a bit quiet here, since we have finished the tailoring class, and Agnes has been having lots of rest.
I thought I would give a quick update to let everyone know what has been happening.
Lots of our time has been put into this chicken project and right now we are selling all our chickens!
Due to some mistakes on our behalf (in regards to feeding amounts and feeding schedules), and some advice from others that hasn't been the greatest, we look like we will just break even with this first lot of chickens!
But it has all been a valuable experience! We have learnt a lot and can now adjust what needs to be done for the second lot of chickens!
We are confident with the experience we have gained and look forward to yielding better results with the next lot of 300 chickens that we will get in November.
Agnes brother has also come on board, and wants to volunteer with us to give us some good tips, as he has been involved in rearing chickens for a long time as well.
There has been a lot of work over the last 7 weeks, but everything we have learnt has been so valuable.
People have actually been surprised that we managed to keep so many of the chickens alive and healthy, many people lose so many chickens on their first try.
So although I was a little disappointing at the lack of profit we made from the first lot of chickens, we are looking at the positives. That is the nature of starting micro businesses!
You get experience and you learn and learn until you get something that works just right!
Andrew was recently here for two weeks as well! It was great to have him here! And I always enjoy his pastoral support.
His presence is always so helpful, to be encouraged, supported and guided. He often does so much here in Uganda, and can be a silent workhorse, getting lots and lots done! But Agnes and I really appreciate all his hard work to support the work that goes on Uganda.
One thing he did while here was buy YSU a boda boda. This boda boda is going to be so helpful in running the chicken project.
Running to the block of land, as well as picking up things like maize bran and chicken feeds, has often taken up a lot of transport money (because we have to hire boda boda drivers)
Now with our own boda boda we can save costs on transport, and do everything ourselves.
We want to thank everyone in Australia who supported us and contributed towards the boda boda.
I continue to run my Friday night devo's with my group of boys, and I have encouraged them to start thinking of some of their own lead outreach ideas for the holidays!
We have come together studying the word for that last few months, but since (as James said) faith without deeds is dead, and the fact that you can be an expert in the bible but still not follow Jesus, we want to encourage each other to use our gifts and skills to reach others.
So these boys are coming up with ideas on how they can use their skills to reach others, whether it be hospital patients, street kids or the poor.
That fact that it will be their own initiatives, instead of me telling them what to do, is also encouraging. I will just give them advice and support where I can.
Right now we are still interviewing girls for the next tailoring class, which should be starting in February.
If anyone is interested in supporting girls through a one year tailoring course! Please feel free to contact hopebuilders on info@hopebuilders.org.au
This course has been very valuable in helping these girls. And the stories have been encouraging, seeing young girls getting work in the Jinja main market, or starting up their own businesses.
Otherwise we are doing well health wise! We just have two very tired pregnant women in our house who need a lot of rest (which is one of the reasons we will start the next tailoring course in Feb .. after delivery)
Again we thank you for all your support and prayers! Your support always means so much to us here in Uganda.
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